The Right One

Im not attempting to answer questions here…
Nor do I have any clue to the Pandora-of-a-question above

Im just reminding myself of what I will term as “sound advice” my dad gave eons ago…
(In fact, I think it was during my first relationship)

He asked me to chose someone that makes me feel good about myself
In more exact words, “Someone who makes me likes the me when Im with him”…

Have you ever spent hours staring fervently at the phone waiting for a call?
Or kept your whatsapp on, seeing “him” online but yet not a single message to you?
And then went on to get all crazy and wonder why and who he’s messaging?
If he does message back, you will try all means and ways to keep it going,
And then walk around with this glow the whole day through?

I have.

I hated the “me” then…
I felt small, insecure and needy
Yet, I couldn’t help but went on those roller-coaster rides of wondering and waiting.
Everything else stopped and I was waiting breathlessly on that same spot, scared to move an inch lest the moment passed unnoticed and every “could have” and “should have” is forever gone.

*Smiles*
Don’t worry… Its the past =)
But today, someone reminded me of the me not so long ago…

Your world shouldn’t hinge on someone who makes you feel bad about yourself
Or someone who doesn’t even know (or pretend not to know) how much his aloof-ness or non-actions are hurting…

I still stand strongly by my theory that the Right One will slay the dragons and brave through the fires of hell, just to be with you!!
If he doesn’t, then he’s most probably not worth your tears or emotions!

Jia you la!!! ^^